Author Tom Bower reveals that Prince Harry hoped his late mother’s siblings and friends would recognize the similarities he saw between Meghan and Diana, but he was “disappointed” when they didn’t.
Since Meghan Markle’s relationship with Prince Harry became public, there have been numerous efforts to draw comparisons between her and the late Diana, Princess of Wales.
When investigative journalist Tom Bower released his book Revenge: Meghan, Harry, and the War Between the Windsors earlier this year, several startling revelations about the couple came to light.
One of the most striking stories involved Prince Harry’s hope that Diana’s two sisters and her best friend would notice the similarities he believed Meghan shared with his mother—and his disappointment when they didn’t.

In addition to this disheartening moment for Prince Harry, Bower suggests that Diana’s brother, Earl Spencer, was asked to have a conversation with his nephew about his close bond with Meghan. The author claims that not only did Earl Spencer, Lady Sarah McCorquodale, Baroness Jane Fellowes, and her close friend Julia Samuel fail to recognize the resemblances between Meghan and Harry’s late mother—something the prince had hoped for—but they also believed Meghan would struggle to integrate with the Royal Family. Bower wrote, “After the Vanity Fair article fueled the Cambridges’ suspicions of Meghan, the actress discovered that her neighbor in Kensington Palace had even less regard for her.”

“By that point, Harry had introduced Meghan to Diana’s two sisters, Jane and Sarah, and her closest confidante, Julia Samuel. Harry believed Diana’s relatives and friends would notice a resemblance between Diana and his fiancée. ‘Both,’ he insisted, ‘faced similar challenges.’ He was let down. No one agreed that his fragile mother shared any traits with his partner. More unsettling for him, they felt Meghan wouldn’t seamlessly integrate into the Royal Family.”
The author added: “Their concerns were echoed by Charles Spencer, Diana’s brother. At William’s urging, Spencer shared his thoughts. Having been married three times, Spencer warned his nephew to think twice about rushing into marriage. His counsel sparked a sharp backlash. ‘This was going to be incredibly tough,’ Harry later reflected on securing Meghan’s position within the family.”

Bower continued: “One of his persistent worries was the lack of financial stability if they tied the knot. While Harry received approximately £1.5 million yearly from Charles, Meghan had been encouraged to keep acting to bolster their earnings. By then, Meghan had learned from her agent, Nick Collins, that her opportunities in acting were dwindling. Omid Scobie, her official biographer, would later aptly describe her departure from Hollywood.
“‘She sought a more impactful career,’ he noted. ‘She believed she could achieve far more with her influence.’ Her dissatisfaction lingered. She was on the brink of securing her future, yet nothing was set in stone.”
Farmer Rescues Missing Child and Sacrifices His Farm — At Sunrise, Shaquille O’Neal Shows Up With a Life-Changing Gift
On a brisk autumn morning, Tom Harris — a devoted farmer in a sleepy countryside town — found himself at the heart of an extraordinary and life-altering moment. For decades, Tom had poured his sweat into the soil, building a modest, content life alongside his wife, Maggie, on their cherished little farm. In their community, Tom was the kind of man everyone knew: generous, dependable, never one to expect anything in return. But on this day, his quiet world was about to be turned upside down.
It started like any ordinary morning on the farm—Tom was already out in the fields, tending to his crops and getting things ready before the cold season rolled in. Inside, Maggie was busy in the kitchen, making breakfast, when a sudden, urgent knock broke the quiet rhythm of her morning.
She opened the front door to find a young boy, no older than ten, standing nervously on the porch. His clothes were ripped and dirty, and he looked worn out, his wide eyes filled with fear.
“Ma’am… I’m sorry to bother you,” the boy stammered, his voice barely steady. “I’ve been lost in the woods for hours. I don’t even know how I got here… I just can’t find my way back.”
Maggie, ever the protector, quickly brought the boy inside and gave him a glass of water. Her heart ached at the thought of a child wandering alone through the thick woods. Without hesitation, she went off to find Tom.
When Tom heard what had happened, he didn’t waste a second. Dropping everything, he headed straight for the forest with the boy beside him. The hours stretched on, but thanks to Tom’s deep knowledge of the land and his unshakable focus, he eventually located the child’s family. They were overwhelmed with emotion — scared and desperate — and greeted their son with tearful gratitude. Their relief was obvious, and they couldn’t thank Tom enough for safely reuniting them.
But, as life so often reminds us, the unexpected was just around the corner.
The Setback
Just days after the rescue, a letter from the bank brought devastating news. They were moving ahead with the foreclosure of Tom’s farm. A string of tough breaks had caused him to fall behind on payments, and despite his tireless efforts, he couldn’t catch up. In their quiet town, extra work was scarce, and the weight of losing the land he had hoped to leave to his children hit him hard.
Tom’s chest tightened as he walked through the quiet barn, eyes scanning the land he’d poured his life into. Every inch held a memory—early mornings, long hours, the laughter he and Maggie shared amid the hard work. The farm was more than soil and fences—it was their life, built with sweat, patience, and love.
The sound of tires crunching gravel snapped him out of his thoughts. The sheriff had arrived, foreclosure notice in hand. As the paper was nailed to the front gate, Tom felt his world crumble.
He had always taken pride in providing, in building something lasting. But now, it all felt like it was slipping away—his farm, his home… his legacy—being stripped from him piece by piece.
Shaq’s Surprise Visit
That evening, as Tom relaxed on his porch, staring across the sprawling fields he was about to lose, something out of the ordinary unfolded.
Just as the morning light crept in, a firm knock echoed on his door. When he answered, a polished black SUV was waiting in the driveway, and a towering figure emerged. There was no mistaking him.
It was Shaquille O’Neal—the basketball icon, celebrated not just for his legendary plays, but also for his sharp business mind and generous spirit.
“Mr. Harris, I hope I’m not catching you at a bad time,” Shaq said with a kind grin. “I’m Shaquille O’Neal.”
Tom blinked, completely taken aback. “Hold on—Shaquille O’Neal? The Shaquille O’Neal?” he asked, struggling to wrap his head around the bizarre moment.
Shaq nodded, flashing a familiar broad smile. “That’s right. You helped out my nephew last week—the kid who got lost out in the forest. I’ve been wanting to thank you personally.”
Tom could hardly speak. “I—I didn’t even realize who he was,” he replied, his tone still laced with shock.
Shaq lifted a hand calmly. “That doesn’t matter. What does matter is what you did for him. You saved that boy’s life. That means something to me. I don’t forget people who do the right thing.”
Before Tom could get a word out, Shaq went on, “I’ve heard about what you’re going through. I know the farm’s being taken. That’s just wrong. You’ve put in the work, and you deserve way more than this.”
Tom stood frozen as Shaq leaned into the SUV and retrieved a thick envelope. He handed it over with a look of quiet determination.
“This is a check that wipes out your mortgage completely,” Shaq said, his tone calm and sincere. “Think of it as a gift—and a thank-you—for looking after my family. I want you to keep your land, Tom. You’ve more than earned it.”
With trembling fingers, Tom tore open the envelope, his breath catching as he saw the figure—more than enough to clear the debt.
“I don’t—this is far too generous,” Tom stammered, his voice breaking. “I can’t take this. You don’t even know who I am.”
Shaquille gave a warm smile. “I know exactly who you are. You’re someone who gives without expecting anything back. You rescued my nephew, and now I’m stepping in to save your farm. That’s what family means. I’m just passing the kindness along.”
Tom stood frozen, moved by the unexpected kindness. He never imagined that helping a child find his way would result in such a life-changing gift. Emotion welled up inside him.
“I—thank you. I don’t even have the words,” Tom said, his voice heavy with emotion. “You’ve turned everything around for me, Shaquille. I’ll remember this forever.”
Shaquille gently placed a firm hand on Tom’s shoulder. “No need to say a thing. Just be there for your family, and keep doing what you’re meant to do. This farm is yours now, Tom. Always remember that.”
A Fresh Start
As Shaquille O’Neal drove off in his SUV, leaving Tom behind, tears of overwhelming gratitude filled Tom’s eyes. He understood, in that moment, that this was the fresh start he’d been hoping for. The land would stay his, and his family wouldn’t have to abandon the life they’d worked so hard to build.
In the days that came, Tom poured every ounce of energy into restoring the farm. He often found his thoughts drifting back to Shaquille’s unbelievable kindness—how someone with fame and fortune could offer so much to a man who had little besides grit and a good heart. Shaquille hadn’t just saved the farm—he’d returned to Tom a deep sense of pride and renewed purpose.
As Tom stood in the fields that afternoon, gazing out over the land he would now call his forever, he murmured to the breeze, “Thank you, Shaquille. You turned my whole world around.”
And as the golden sun dipped behind the horizon, Tom Harris realized that life had its own quiet way of honoring the good-hearted—even when it came out of nowhere. Sometimes, a single act of compassion could rewrite everything.