Buckingham Palace recently announced the passing of Catherine, Duchess of Kent, a beloved royal remembered for her humility, dedication to music education, and quiet service.

The 92-year-old, who passed away peacefully surrounded by family, lived a life of understated grace, often choosing to be known simply as “Mrs. Kent” while teaching music in schools, where her royal status went unnoticed by students.

As the royal family prepares for her private Catholic funeral, attention has unfortunately shifted to speculation about whether Prince Harry and Meghan, Duke and Duchess of Sussex, will attend—despite their strained ties with the family.

The Duchess of Kent, wife of the late Duke of Kent and aunt to King Charles III, was a figure of discretion, far removed from the public spotlight. Her commitment to teaching music in underserved communities and her deep Catholic faith defined her legacy. In contrast, Harry and Meghan have often been associated with high-profile media ventures, leading to tensions with the royal family, as detailed in their public statements and projects. Sources close to the Duke of Kent, who is grieving the loss of his wife, suggest he hopes for a private, dignified farewell, free from media frenzy or unrelated controversies.

The funeral is expected to be an intimate affair, attended by close family members such as King Charles III, Queen Camilla, Prince William, and Catherine, Princess of Wales, who issued a heartfelt tribute honoring the Duchess’s legacy. Reports indicate that Harry sent private condolences, though these were shared publicly via his spokesperson, drawing criticism for lacking the personal warmth of other royals’ messages. Given the Duchess’s limited connection to Meghan and the Sussexes’ strained relationship with the royal family, their presence at the funeral could risk overshadowing the solemn occasion.

The Duchess’s life was marked by quiet devotion, from her charitable work to her historic conversion to Catholicism in 1994—the first such conversion in the royal family in over 300 years. Her funeral, a Catholic service, reflects her deeply held faith and personal wishes. The Duke of Kent and the royal family are focused on ensuring the event remains a respectful tribute to her legacy, rather than a platform for external narratives. As such, there is a clear sentiment that Harry and Meghan’s absence would help preserve the dignity of the occasion, allowing the focus to remain on celebrating the Duchess’s remarkable life of service and faith.