Peter Phillips, the late Queen Elizabeth II’s eldest grandchild, and his fiancée, Harriet Sperling, announced their engagement in a glowing Hello! Magazine feature on September 17, 2025, complete with picturesque engagement photos.
The couple, both divorcees, shared the news through a statement by Gerrard Franklin, noting that King Charles III, Queen Camilla, and the Prince and Princess of Wales were informed.
Conspicuously absent from the announcement were Prince Harry and Meghan Markle, signaling a firm exclusion from the upcoming nuptials and sparking fresh speculation about their standing within the royal family.
The Sussexes, now firmly ensconced in Montecito, California, can abandon any hopes of attending Peter’s wedding. Sources close to the royal family confirm that Princess Anne, Peter’s mother and a no-nonsense pillar of the monarchy, has decisively quashed any chance of an invite with her characteristic bluntness—rumored to have declared it “not bloody likely.” Known for her aversion to drama, Anne is ensuring her son’s second wedding remains free of the media circus that often trails Harry and Meghan.
Peter, who previously snubbed the Sussexes during the Platinum Jubilee celebrations in 2022, is unlikely to extend an olive branch now. His relationship with Harry has been strained since the couple’s departure from royal duties in 2020, with no recorded contact in years. Harriet, a respected NHS nurse and freelance writer, has never met the Sussexes, further chilling the prospect of their attendance. The wedding is expected to be an intimate, elegant affair in the classic royal style—potentially at Gatcombe Park or a small church venue—far from the spectacle of Harry and Meghan’s 2018 nuptials, which required special arrangements due to Meghan’s divorcee status.
Royal insiders emphasize that this is a family affair, not a platform for reconciliation or Netflix-fueled optics. “Peter and Harriet want a day focused on love, not headlines,” one source noted. The absence of an invite reflects the broader royal stance: no accommodations for the couple who stepped back from duties yet capitalized on their titles through media ventures like their 2022 docuseries and Harry’s memoir, Spare. The guest list will likely prioritize close family, including the Kents, Gloucesters, and Tindalls, alongside Harriet’s circle, keeping the event low-key and drama-free.
Social media buzzed with reactions, with fans applauding Anne’s firm hand. “Harry and Meghan burned bridges—why expect an invite?” one X user posted. Others praised Harriet’s seamless integration into the royal fold, noting her warm reception by the inner circle as a testament to her authenticity—a contrast to Meghan’s perceived quest for spotlight. As Peter and Harriet prepare for their new chapter, the royal family is united in ensuring their moment shines without the shadow of Montecito melodrama.